What is a daughter's role?

The daughter needs to respect her mother for the work she does to bring up her child. For all the sleepless nights of worry, for all the cooking, all the time a mother dedicates to bring up her child with compassion and love.

A daughter needs to forgive for her expectations to have a perfect mom and be a perfect daughter. She needs to forgive her mother, that no mother knows it all, that the daughter needs to learn from her mother of all the missing things that she could not give.

A mother gives part of life school, the rest the child needs to learn by himself. You cannot expect a mother to solve all your problems. You! need to solve the problems, that is unconditional love. Unconditional love is to love with no condition, you get what you get and don't expect anything more. If you have expectations, that means that you cannot love unconditionally, then this is your problem and not your mothers. You cannot expect your mother to live your life with your challenges. She is not God, she is just another human with her fears, questions and also coming to earth to learn.

Your mother gives you birth, feeds you, teaches you, prepares you with her knowledge to deal with life. It's up to you to do the rest. She cannot teach you things, she did not learn. Every generation faces new challenges, new circumstances, new ways of behavior. A mother can impossible know it all.

Cherish your mother for what she can give. Forgive and be grateful.

Why woman struggle with their mothers?

You expect your mother to give you unconditional love. The interpretation of unconditional love is being misunderstood. Every mother loves unconditionally with what she can give, what she received as a child. What her life experience is. She cannot give something she did not learn or receive.

Daughters have high expectations. We face new challenges, which come to us for us to learn something out of it.

We need to learn to

love or defend ourselves, protect ourselves in different circumstances . A mother cannot live our lives. So she cannot prepare us for all. We need to learn for what we get and according to our capacity to learn. We need to learn to forgive us, not to comprehend. We need to forgive our mothers too, since they lived in another generation in different circumstances.